im 13. and im not allowed to wear makeup. im pretty ugly (not fishing for compliment here!) and all the guys say that....I am also kinda having a little acne problem...i cant' wear lipgloss or do my nails....
so what can I do to look Better??No Makeup?!?
hun your thirteen we all had all those nasty pimples over time theyll get better
ask your parents ffor some acne cream
you can wear chapstick and paint your nails clear
ask your parents why you cant wear make up and when you will be able toNo Makeup?!?
awwww you poor girl!!
1. face wash.
2. proativeee.
3. lotion.
4. a cute hairstyle. likkeeee sidebangs. long hair. some layers.
You can ask your parents to let you wear makeup that does not show that much. As for your nails you can put clear paint on them.
get acne medicine from the supermarket and WHY CAN'T YOU WEAR NAIL POLISH?! its awesome! anyway, just maybe wear earrings and a hat/do your hair up some cool way, good luck!
chapstick can look like lipshine, as 4 acne wash ur face and eat sugar free, it really helps and it's not that bad.
God that sucks!
Well i'm 13 and what i did to start wearing makeup is i just started wearing it a couple years ago. Buy some when your out with your friends and while your at school put on the makeup before classes.
Get proactive for your acne problems and tweeze your eyebrows so you have a nice arch. Also, find a nice hairstyle that will compliment your face shape.
always clean your face before you go to bed..so you wont get acne...make sure you get enough sleep so you wont get dark circles. make sure your lips arent chapped, and pluck your eyebrows
bite your lips to make it look red. You can always use acsessories. Like earings, nice bows. Try and you will look great.
I can only help you on the zits and lip gloss part.
1) Get astringent for your face
2) Eat cherries. They leave a stain on your lips that looks like lipgloss/stick but isn't.
smile!! smiling instantly makes you look better and its contagious so you'll make every one around you happy too...and have a good posture...walk into every room like you are prettier than reese witherspoon :)....that will instantly make you look heaps better and feel heaps better too :) good luck honey :)
omg! my moms the same way but then i just randomly started wearing eyeliner and she didnt say anything!(mayb she didnt notice) but u can also try saying ';mom id like to start wearing makeup, sometimes i dont feel very confident about the way i look'; if she still says no try to compromise like youll only wear a little or only wear it sometimes. if your a real daredevil just start wearing it without telling!haha but no matter what if a boy calls u ugly just say i dont know what ur problem is but i bet its hard to pronounce or im already visualizing the duct tape over ur mouth!! haha visit www.jokesnjokes.net for more insults like those!
You know you are you own worst critic.. !!! and you are probable not even ugly.. your still a child.. and in time you will be able to wear make-up..
Try getting a acne medication now before the problem gets outta hand.. !!!
good luck..
try some sort of an a face wash and maybe a tinted moisterizer
don't worry about it though, when i was 13 i didn't wear makeup
if you really want to and it will help your social status do it! you could put make up on at school and then take it off befor you get home or wear it anyway and see what ur rents think.
Talk to your mom about getting Pro-Active to clear up your acne. Tell her then you wouldn't have to wear make up. If you can't do that Cover Girl has Tru-Blend make up that comes in shades. You match it to the nearest color of your skin and when you put it on you can't tell you have it on, it blends right in. You only need ';a little'; when you use make up. Most girls make the mistake of putting on to much. The secret is to look like you have no make up on and that is what Tru-Blend does. I got it at K-Mart ,costs about $8. Good luck. Oh by the way don't call yourself ugly have some self esteem and you'll see the ';swan'; appear.
if you can't wear makeup then work with what you have. If you are 13 then it is normal for you to have acne prob. When I was 15 -16 I had this horrible acne for a year then it left as fast as it came. I would advise asking your mom to get your some proactiv for your skin. It will make you feel good when your skin clears up.. btw don't worry about people saying your ugly at 13.. Now I don't have a problem with guys.. this is me now http://i105.photobucket.com/albums/m222/鈥?/a> I was a dog and no boys would give me any attention but more laughed at me when I was your age.. It just makes me sad that so many immature people are in the world.. anyway you keep your head up.
Also why not start exercising. I don't know if you already do or not but exercise helps so much with self esteem and when you feel great from a workout then you dont worry about not being able to wear make up.
Stop thinking that you are ugly, people who look on the outside are the shallow ones. I am 29 and I only wear makeup when I feel like it. Try to build up your self esteem. Anyways in a few years those mean boys are going to be ugly or nerdy.
Hi!
I am 23, and I am a beauty Advisor at AVON.
When I was 13, I was in the same boat as you...my mom wouldn't let me wear any makeup either.
First, the best thing to do is to let you mom read this response, and see if she agrees before you follow any advice.
You may look at your mom as being overprotective now, but in the future you will thank her for her wisdom and advice.
Second, you should never call yourself ugly. Everyone, no matter how tall or short, thin or heavy, young or old, has beauty in some form.
I don't know what you look like, but I am SURE you aren't ugly.
plus, your looks aren't predetermined at 13.
As you get older, you will grow into yourself, and you will become a lovely young lady. give it time
And as for boys....don't listen. Boys are the nastiest creatures on the earth at your age.
With that being said, here are some ways that you can ';look better'; without wearing makeup:
1.The best thing you can do for yourself, and that includes your appearance, your health and your energy level, is drink water.
it may seem simple, but making sure that you get 6-8 glasses of water a day will give you more energy, it will help your body remove toxins, which will help your body function better and will improve your skin, and it will help you maintain a healthy weight.
2. Along that same line, eatting right will also help you body to remove toxins and waste, and function properly. this will help your skin to clear up and help you maintina a healthy weight.
Now, I am not saying diet, nor am i saying you have to give up food. Eatting right just means balancing your diet. Limit you junk food such as pizza, chocolate, chips, and soda/pop. these carry too much sugar and fat. these things are ok once in a while, but try to limit how many times a week, and how much you eat of these foods. Eat plenty of protein (chicken, fish, meat and nuts) veggies (especially the green ones like broccoli, and zucchini) and fruits (peaches bananas apples and oranges are especially good for a girl your age.) You also want to make sure you get some dairy in there (milk, yogurt cheeses, and even occasionally ice cream!) Making sure to get a balanced diet every day is important to feeling and looking your best.
3. Exercising. Same as the above two, exercising will keep your body functioning properly and help you to look and feel better. You want to make sure you maintain a healthy weight now, as it gets harder as you get older and your metabolism slows down. Noticve also that i am saying HEALTHY WEIGHT. This does not mean you have to look like the girls in magazines. A healthy weight is different for everyone,and depends on your height. you can find a health chart online to see what your healthy weight it, according to your hieght. For example A healthy weight for someone my height (5'3';) is 125 lbs. but the healthy range is 110-145 lbs. As long as I am in between those two weights I am considered in excellent health.
They say you should exercise 30 minutes every other day. this doesn't mean going crazy and running a marathon or doing crazy aerobics! You can if you wnt, but doing something as simple as going for a 30 minute walk, or riding a bike would be just fine:)
4. Get enough sleep! This is really important for a girl your age. Getting 6-8 hours of sleep every single night helps you body to refresh. If you get less than 6 hours of sleep, you can become irratble, stressed and can even suffer fom memory loss throughout the day. But getting more than 8-10 hours of sleep is no better. It can slow your whole body down, making you sleepy and not able to concentrate.
Along with all of these natural ways to help you look better, here are some good non-makeup cosmetic ways to look your best:
1. Make sure to shower daily. Use a shower gel/body wash with built in lotion (such as Oil of Olay Body Butter Ribbons) to help keep you clean and keep your skin soft.
2. Keep your hair shiny and clean, but don't over do it! ne of the biggest mistakes Poepl make is that your hair ALWAYS has to be washed every day. This is not true. in Fact, unless you hair is very naturally oily, washing your hair every day can damage your hair and make it look overly dry. If your hair is not very oily,. try washing your hair only every other day to help retain it's moistrue. Also make sure you are using a shampoo that is appropriate for your hair type. If you have thick hair, use a moisturizing shampoo with anit-frizz. if you have thin hair try a volume boosting shampoo. If you hair is curly, make sure you get a shampoo that is good for curly hair. A good shampoo line that is inexpensive and has a shampoo for just about every hair type is SunSilk or Herbal Essences. ALways use a conditioner for medium length to long hair (this is anything below the shoulders). Apply it to the ends of your hair , it will keep it shiny.
3. Find a good facial cleanser and moisterizer. At the age of 13, your hormones are kicking in, and your face and everything else is probably going crazy. A teenage girls best friends are her face cleaner and moisterizer. Every teen needs to pay particular attention to their face, and regular soap is not a good anser. Because your face is so much more sensitive, using a regular skin soap can damage your face and dry it out, while still leaving pimples. Try L'Oreal Pure Zone Foaming Facial Cleanser. it is good for any skin type and not to pricey. It works wonders!
Also, It is alwasy a good idea to have a moiturizer for afterwards. Cleaning your face leaves it bacteria free, but it also removes all the natural oils that protect your face. The last thing you need is a flakey face!
Try Tea Tree Oil Mattifying Moisture gel from The Body Shop. you can get it only or at any body shop store,a nd it keeps your face oil free, while moisturizing. it also has tea tree extracts to fight blemishes! I have used it for years!!!
4. Finally, remember, you don't need makeup to look good, or to ';be cool';. Keep yourself clean, eat healthy, brush your teeth, comb your hair. Dress nice, and try your best to folow a ';beauty regime'; as i outlined above.
You will feel better, look better and your mom will thank you for not fighting her on the makeup issue.
In the meantime, sit down with her and talk (don't whine, or beg, but really talk and show her repesct, she knows what she is doing believe it or not...haha) to her about possible future makeup endeavors. It is important to know your guidlines.
Ask her:
1. What age she will allow you to wear makeup, and whatever she says, be ok with that. After all, the lastest you will not be allowed is 18. 16 is when I was allowed to start wearing makeup, and i think that is a reasonable age, and she probably will too.
2. If she would be willing to consider letting you wear clear nail polish. it may not be much, but it is a place to start. if she is ok with that, in a years time (when you are 14, ask if you could start wearing clear lip gloss (like bonne bell lip smackers). Try to work with your mom, and find out what she thinks is acceptable and when.
In the meatime, keep your chin and hopes up and don't listen to those boys!
Use a cleanser on your face - even if it's just a bar of Ivory soap and water. Shower every day - cleanliness is close to Godliness, they say. That should help with the acne a bit, though even good hygiene won't necessarily get rid of it. :]
13? I think you should sit down with your mom. Don't just come out of the blue and say, ';I'm 13, I think I should be able tow ear makeup.'; Ask her if there's a time, maybe this weekend, when you two can sit down and have a talk and really discuss this. :D
Have a paper ready - with all your reasons for wearing makeup. Don't say anything whiny, like ';But everybody else is doing it';
Let her talk, and don't interrupt, with her opinion. Follow up with yours. The paper is only to keep your thoughts organized - it's not a speech, don't write everything down word for word.
Tell her you think makeup would help your self-image improve and make you feel more confident. Ask if you can start out small - nailpolish, lipgloss, and loose powder. Show her than you can wear these reponsibly, and gradually ask her if you can wear more, after she's more comfortable with you wearing these basics. Ask her to sit down for another talk, maybe wait 6 months-a year first.
Tell her you'd like to extend the makeup you wear, with her approval. Let's not get into that though, as that will be sometime in the not-so-near future. :]
If she says no after your talk, accept it as her final opinion. Ask her for her reasons - don't ask whiny, again. Just calmly ask, ';Can you please tell me why you're not comfortable with my wearing makeup?';
Take it slowly, don't try to jump into things. Make sure you let her know you value her opinion. And I hope all goes well for you. ^^
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First make sure you cleansing your face morning and night. Second change your pillow case ever 3-4 days that will help with break out a bunch. Next know your a beautiful person inside and out and then others will follow. The most beautful people are beautiful not just because of there looks but because of there confidence with in them selves. If all else fails tell your mom you want to go to a clinique counter for a skin care lesson not make up. they are free. While you are there after you are in the seat ask your mom if you can try some stuff just for fun. They will make it light and pretty
Try using Clean %26amp; Clear's PersaGel-5 to get rid of your acne and maybe telling the boys that call you ugly to f*** themselves, then going home and giving yourself a confidence boost in the mirror? I HIGHLY doubt you're as ugly as you think you are.
first prayer that God will always help you be contented of who you are
2nd be positive....read books that will enhance your personality
3rd just keep yourself from being simple and nice,use powder and lip gloss would be fi
At 13 you really don't need to wear any makeup. I know you want to, all 13 year old girls do. I let my daughter. She is 13 and she wear it so it look natural. I feel sorry for you. My advice would be take good care of your skin. Wash your face twice a day, use a good face wash, toner, and mosturize even if you have acne. I don't get why you can't paint your nails. Good luck to you. Also if the boys are telling you you are ugly....they may have a crush on you.
hmmm you said you cant buy anything.. with the soap that you already have just wash your face about two times a day with warm water it' really tough to remember to do but jut try to make it part of your daily schedual like do it right after lunch and right after dinner. that can help you acne AND DONT PICK AT IT! i'm very orry that you cant wear make up im 13 too and im allowed but i dont really chooe to wear it im content with the way God made me and i shouldnt try to hide who i really am
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